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All You Need is Love!

This week in America many are celebrating the 50th anniversary of the Sunday on which the British rock band, the Beatles, first performed on the Ed Sullivan Show. That variety program played a large part in what became known as Beatlemania in those days. As the name suggests, it was a crazy time. Coming from a musical family, I was already beginning to play the guitar and drums, but the excitement generated by their music helped to spark this 12 year old’s enthusiasm even more. That enthusiasm has continued to this day.

As the Beatles matured, some of the themes of their songs matured as well. In 1967 the anti-Vietnam war movement was in full swing, along with the hippies and their emphasis on peace and free-love. I was fascinated to see God becoming popular among these young adults and teens. That was also a time of great optimism, when great Christian leaders like Dr. Martin Luther King dreamed of unity and harmony among all races of humanity.

1967 was the year of what became known as the “Summer of Love,” and the Beatles were right there in the forefront again. The world’s first live global television link broadcast them live performing their song, “All You Need is Love.” It was watched by over 150 million in 26 countries, and was broadcast via satellite that year on June 25.

In this song the answers to all the world’s problems seemed so easy. Again and again we heard the warm and wonderful words, “All you need is love.” And many of us believed those words. Sadly, their love was not enough to hold the band together. Three years later a bitter breakup occured.

If love is all you need, what is the problem? Why can’t we all just get along? Are there different kinds of love, or differing degrees of love?

All this reminds me of another aspect of my teen years. It was then when I learned that the first and greatest commandment was to love God with all of your heart, mind soul and strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself. That sounded much easier to me than how I understood what preachers in church were telling me to do. Just love God and others, and everything will be fine. Right? Well, I eventually found, as perhaps the Beatles found, that we need help in doing just that.

After leaving the influence of the Church I felt my life starting to fall apart. My understanding of love was not enough, and I did not have the right kind of love, if in fact that was all I needed. What ever I had was not enough.

When I returned to both God and the Church it all came together for me. God Himself filled me with His love, and began teaching me more about what it meant to love others like He loves. The love that we need comes from God Who first loved us in our fallen, sinful condition. It is that sinful, selfish nature that hinders us from fully expressing any true, genuine love towards God and others.

But there is Good News! By surrendering to God and His love, receiving the free gift of forgiveness through the sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross, we are set free from this old nature to start a completely new life in Him! From that time on we begin to reckon that old life to be dead, even when we are tempted to acknowledge it. If and when we weaken and give in to old habits and thoughts, we can immediately recover through repentance and confession of sin. (1 John 1:9).

The Love of God surpasses all knowledge. It is greater than signs, wonders, miracles, prophesies, even faith and hope! (Ephesians 3:19, 1 Corinthians 13). This fact does not eliminate any of these things. Faith expresses itself through love. (Galatians 5:6) The Truth is spoken in and because of love. (Ephesians 4:15). It is because of His love that God sent His only Son to save us. (John 3:16). Without His power and authority God would be helpless to express the fullness of His Love.

His love in our hearts motivates us to spend time in the Scriptures and become better equipped to serve others. There we learn that love is at the center of God’s great plan of the ages for His creation, to be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God! (Romans 8:19-21).

God’s Divine Love is truly all you need to motivate you to grow in grace, learn of Him, serve others, build up the body of Christ, share the Gospel, pray for the Kingdom to be fully revealed and so on. If we truly humble ourselves before Him and receive His Love, these things will begin to work in our lives. If they never begin, we might be fooling ourselves, as did many in the so-called Summer of Love, who consequently fell into the deception of drugs and lustful living.

Real Manhood

“This is the book of the genealogy of Adam. In the day that God created man, He made him in the likeness of God. He created them male and female, and blessed them and called them Mankind in the day they were created.” (Genesis 5:1-2 NKJV)

Contrary to modern pop-psychology, men and women are not from different planets! However, the One Who created them definitely established a distinction between them. Together they become a wonderful picture of their Father God. Being an invisible Spirit, He has chosen to reveal Himself through the amazing form of these human beings He has created!

It did eventually happen, however, that we humans fell from that lofty estate through disobedience. (Romans 4:12). This set in motion God’s plan of redemption wherein He sent His only Son to die in our place, and live again to restore our union with Him. (Romans 5:8-11). Nearly two thousand years have passed since Jesus reconciled mankind to God, and yet the struggle against sin and death continues.

It has always been so, that when we turn from our own way, believe the truth of the Gospel, trust in Him and receive His gracious gift of eternal life, everything changes. With this clean slate, both males and females of this once fallen race now have this fantastic opportunity to resume the original quest for which we were created. There is much lost time to recover, and many old patterns and habits to forsake. For this, we His redeemed people need the constant renewing or our minds.

Because of the Fall, the roles which God designed for men and women have become greatly distorted. The resulting image has been a poor representation of the image of our wonderful Lord. The abuses that men have heaped upon women and women upon men have scarred humanity in many ways. Sin takes a serious and deadly toll upon us all. The scars are often deep and not often recognized, but they powerfully shape our thoughts, feelings and actions.

Thank the Lord that healing has come! No longer do we have to live in the pain of the past, and in the false conceptions of this fallen world. Christ has set us free, and we are truly free!

Men are now free to be men as God intended, and women can truly pursue their deepest desires in Him as well. Those characteristics that were once designed for good and the glory of God have been twisted and distorted. The boldness and strength He placed in man have been used for evil and oppression, and the sensitivity and gentleness He created in women has been used to seduce and manipulate.

There is an equally damaging and sinful reaction to these situations today. Our modern culture seeks a solution in blurring the differences between the sexes that God had wisely designed. Men are being feminized and women are being masculinized in extremely subtle and deceptive ways, even in the Church. While Jesus did teach us to be meek, He did not say for us to be weak. Jesus was a real man. He stood for righteousness and truth always, without abusing His authority. He was infinitely loving and kind, but also uncompromising in the Truth.

He sent other men out into the world like Peter, James, John, Paul, Luke, Timothy, Apollos and others, to make the same stand for His Gospel of the Kingdom of God. Ours is a different world and a different time, and yet this very same adventure continues. In opposition to this, our adversary the devil has used the succeeding centuries to develop more distractions to consume our time. He has benched millions by simply convincing them they are not needed. Their efforts are useless. Their lives do not matter.

Many try to affirm their masculinity by big talk, coarse attitudes, and rude behavior. Others by the accumulation of things. Some succumb to the culture by becoming passive, nice guys who would not dare to confront evil or even face controversy. Others test their bravery in heated battles over the pettiest of issues and opinions, destroying the unity and harmony in the community and the Church.

Jesus is calling us to be real men. There is a battle worth fighting and a war worth winning. But this one is not with flesh and blood. Real men resist passivity. They take responsibility for themselves and those whom God has placed in their care. They can do all this through Christ who strengthens them! They resist selfishness and self-indulgence. If they are married they learn to love their wives as Christ loves His Church. If they are single they keep themselves pure for His sake.

They are willing to endure hardness, as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. (2 Timothy 2:3) They understand the true Grace of God that empowers them and teaches them to deny ungodliness and worldly desires, to live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present age. (Titus 2:12). Instead of running from the battle, their true inner manhood motivates them to engage it. With a renewed mind they set out to prove that good, acceptable and perfect will of God. (Romans 12:1-2). Excuses are not for real men. This cowardess is unnecessary because of the indwelling power of Christ.

Real men admit to failure and repent. Real men confess their faults one to another and are healed. Real men do not try to fall back on an easy, armchair religion or blame others for their mistakes. Real men receive correction from the Lord and those He sends to them. Real men get back up and fight the good fight of faith. When tempted to feel sorry for themselves, they seek out other men for encouragement. They cultivate a thankful heart.

Is there something inside of you that cries out to break free from the constraints of fallen humanity? Do you sense that there is more than simply accepting and coping with life as it is? The fact is that the freedom you seek is only found in submission. Your submission to Christ and the challenge to manhood that He presented is the answer. His offer is one of a dangerous and challenging existence, and yet one that is exhilarating and fulfilling!

It is time for many of us to give up the complacent, purposeless life of one who has lowered his expectations to fit his circumstances. No. Christ came to change everyone’s circumstances, by first changing our hearts. His compassion will never be satisfied to leave us unchanged, and the circumstances of others unchanged either. It is the Lord’s to decide what should be changed and when, but real men are ready when He is. Every simple act of obedience to Christ becomes a courageous challenge to the gates of hell! No command from their Commander and Chief is too small or too large to them.

They can truly hold their heads up high before the world as they humbly bow before their Savior and Lord, Who has given them their true dignity, and Who awaits to crown them with His Crown of Life. (James 1:12, Revelation 2:10).

Because they have surrendered their lives and their future to Christ, they will be able to stand with our beloved Paul, who near the end of his life wrote these compelling words:

“For I am now ready to be offered, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith:

Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing.” (2 Tim 4:6-8)

The Case for House Church

Around 18 years ago my wife and I were having fellowship with some friends that we hadn’t seen for some time. That evening we found we had many things in common, especially in our desire for a more simplistic approach to gathering with other believers. During the course of time, the phrase “house church” came up. If I had ever heard it before, it never impacted me like it had then. I already knew that the First Century Church often met in homes, but at this point in my life I envied the them more for this very reason.

From that time on, I began to learn more about various movements in recent history where home meetings were more than home Bible studies and prayer meetings. The people in these groups saw their meetings as legitimate expressions of the Church of Jesus Christ. They did not feel the need to build or purchase a building to meet in. They knew that Christ would be present in their gatherings as they prayed, worshipped, read His Word and ate together

Like the First Century Church!

It was the mid-nineties, and the internet was coming into more widespread use. It was there that I found many others who were rediscovering the New Testament Church and finding out about each other. It was an exciting time, and expectations were high. Several families joined with us, and we began a journey that lasted for over 15 years. In retrospect, I can see how things could have been better for many of us during those years, but also how blessed we were to have experienced Christ together in this way.

One of the downfalls of that movement was the tendency to build a case for the existence of House Churches, by building a case against traditional churches that meet in buildings and are more organized. What I want to do today is to build a case for the Biblical church, and how the House Church can be one among other practical ways to experience the Biblical, New Testament Church.

First, what do I mean by Biblical? When Jesus walked as a man on this earth, He made disciples and trained them as sort of “apprentices” in the Gospel. These were to carry the baton, so to speak, which He had passed down to them. Following His example, they preached the Good News of the Kingdom of God, and gathered the believers together as a community. They are the best resource we have for the message and life of Jesus. As He had commanded them, they spread His teachings to many nations, and also passed them down to later generations verbally and in writings.

This Written Word, the New Testament is more important today than it was back then because we no longer have the original eyewitnesses with us. But the power of the words they left are so self-evident that they have been precious to believers for over two thousand years. Not all following generations stayed true to the pure message of Christ, therefore, we continually go back to the Bible as our standard. Some would say, that the Holy Spirit is all they need. My answer to that statement is that the Holy Spirit inspired the Bible, and I am thankful that I have a way to test any impression or “spirit” to see if it is truly from God!

The same Holy Spirit that lived in the apostles, lives in us today, and when we are in agreement with those sent by Christ, we are in agreement with Him. That agreement produces the power to change lives, communities, and nations for the glory of God. Why would we not want that?

So when we speak of the Biblical Church, or Biblical Christianity, we are talking about that which is faithful to Jesus Christ Himself. He is responsible for what has been written in the New Testament. Without Him, His coming as a baby in Bethlehem, His sinless life, His preaching and teaching of the Kingdom of God, His miracles, His death on the Cross, His Resurrection, His Ascension to the throne on high, and His sending forth the Holy Spirit to fill His people, there would be no Church. Without the faithfulness of the men and women that He discipled, we would have no New Testament, no Twenty-first Century Church.

The Biblical Church is found in a multitude of nations, languages and cultures. There are many differences in the way they dress, in the songs they sing together, and in the way they meet. The one thing that they have in common is their faithfulness to the Words of Christ. They can gather in homes, hotel meeting facilities, and traditional buildings designed for Church meetings. I have attended meetings in all of these settings, as well as in a straw hut with a dirt floor in India. The important thing is that Jesus Christ is loved, honored, worshipped and obeyed.

The case I am attempting to make is not that other settings cannot be Biblical. In fact, I have been in House Church meetings that were frankly less Biblical in many ways than other meetings in traditional settings. However, I do believe there are advantages to meeting in homes. Those who love the Word of God and seek to follow Christ together can find a great freedom to do so in believer’s homes.

Consider the “one anothers” written in the New Testament. All of them are important to a rich, genuine Christian experience that is faithful to the call of Christ for every believer.

We are instructed to:

. . . be at peace with one another (Mark 9:50)

. . . wash one another’s feet (John 13:14)

. . . love one another (John 13:34-35, 15:12, 17, Romans 13:8, 1 Thessalonians. 3:12, 4:9, 1 John 3:11, 1 John 3:23, 1 John 4:7, 1 John 4:11-12, 2 John 5)

……deeply, from the heart (1 Peter 1:22)

. . . realize that we are members of one another (Romans. 12:5)

. . . be devoted to one another in love (Romans. 12:10)

. . . honor one another above yourselves (Romans 12:10)

. . . live in harmony with one another (Romans. 12:16)

. . . stop passing judgment on one another (Romans. 14:13)

. . . edify one another (Romans. 14:19)

. . . be like minded one toward another (Romans. 15:5)

. . . admonish one another (Romans. 15:14).

. . . wait for one another (1 Corinthians 11:33)

. . . have the same care for one another (1 Corinthians 12:25)

. . . greet one another with a holy kiss (Romans. 16:16, 1 Corinthians 16:20, 2 Corinthians 13:12, 1 Peter 5:14)

. . . serve one another in love (Galatians 5:13)

. . . bear with one another in love (Ephesians. 4:2, Colossians 3:13)

. . . speak truth for we are members of one another (Ephesians. 4:25)

. . . be kind and compassionate to one another (Ephesians. 4:32)

. . . submit to one another (Ephesians. 5:21)

. . . not lie to one another (Colossians 3:9)

. . . forgive one another (Colossians 3:13)
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. . . comfort one another (1 Thessalonians 4:18)

. . . incite one another to love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24)

. . . encourage one another (Hebrews 10:25)

. . . not speak evil of one another (James 4:11)

. . . not make complaints against one another (James 5:9)

. . . confess your sins to one another (James 5:16)

. . . pray for one another (James 5:16)

. . . offer hospitality to one another (1 Peter 4:9)

. . . clothe yourselves with humility toward one another (1 Peter 5:5).

. . . have fellowship with one another (1 John 1:7)

All of these exhortations must be responded to in the context of personal relationships. It would be difficult to visualize any of them outside of that context. Each of them implies that we know each other. Of course there are ways that people get to know one another outside of the church gathering. But a more informal House Church setting can facilitate the process. Whereas, a person could attend a large mega-church meeting for some time without getting to know the other believers, let alone the leaders. Thankfully, many larger churches are becoming more intentional about relationships within the local church, by organizing various small groups.

However, my concern is that far too many believers view the relationship side as secondary, while they understand their primary service to be passively observing a lovely program performed on a stage. Certainly there is a time to sit quietly and learn. I have learned tremendously from sitting under inspired, Godly teachers during my lifetime. But some things I probably would not have learned outside of an environment that is characterized by interaction. Many of those who look to the New Testament have come to see that the stage performance resulted more from the Greek culture than the less formal synagogue style from which the New Testament meeting evolved.

Love is the highest priority for believers in Christ. Anything else we do is meaningless without it! (1 Corinthians 13:1-3). This is not the kind of casual, convenient love that is common today. The love that God has for us and that we are to give to one another includes loving even when faults are known.

Another important advantage to the Biblical style house meeting is the checks and balances available. Scriptures concerning leadership become immensely practical, when your leaders are not standing above the people. It is much easier to question a strange doctrine in a personal, close, relationship-oriented gathering. The same goes for strange and spooky manifestations of “the Spirit.” I have found that it is not as easy to get into grandstanding and showmanship in a meeting where everyone knows one another personally. Again, there is less intimidation and more freedom to question what goes on.

Over the years I have met with believers from many theological backgrounds. I have come to appreciate the perspectives of both sides of the free-will verses election debate, as well as those who do not agree with my view of the charismatic experience. Leaders in House Churches are less likely to become isolated from the others in the church – if they are using the New Testament as their model. Other respected and mature members of the congregation can help them to avoid extremes in their teachings which damage the unity we have in Christ.

Another advantage for House Church and other small group meetings is in the area of discipleship and mentoring. The older women can be responsible for the younger women, and the older men for the younger men. The fundamentals of the faith can be transmitted to faithful men, who in turn personally teach other faithful men. (Titus 2:3-5 1 Peter 5:5, 2 Timothy 2:2). The House Church is more like a family than a business or political organization. There is order, but an order based upon proven relationships and the degree of care and concern we have for one another.

The one great disadvantage to House Church/Simple Church is the tendency to see everyone else as completely wrong. The Cross of Christ must continue to work in us a humility and willingness to honor Christ in all of those who love Him. Ultimately, it is only by His power at work within us that we can demonstrate His True Church, His body to the world!

Maybe God has called you to serve in a denominational church or a mega-church. That is between you and the Lord. I personally do not envy that position. May He grant His grace to avoid the pitfalls of such a situation as well as to those who need to avoid the pitfalls of House Church. We all need to be careful that we are not pressed into situations by people, or traditions, rather than the Holy Spirit of God.

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